Everything Happens For A Reason

Anybody who knows me knows that I’m a firm believer of everything happens for a reason. To be honest, I think I use it as a coping mechanism. I believe that, I am exactly where I am supposed to be right now in life even if I’m not happy right now at the moment, I know this is the way it’s supposed to be. I think if my parents didn’t treat me the way they did I wouldn’t be such a strong headed person. There are so many small decisions we make in life that can turn our whole world around and it’s all about taking risks and sometimes, making mistakes. 

As you all know, I suffer with anxiety and I genuinely think it’s to make me better as a person. If I didn’t suffer with this, I wouldn’t have such a passion for psychology, I wouldn’t be so curious as to why my mind is the way it is. I want to help other people overcome this as I battle it myself. If I had kind, loving and supportive parents, I think I wouldn’t suffer with anxiety and I would be completely opposite to the way I am now. I have been let down so many times in life by people and it has only made me stronger. Yes, I have put up a wall that people would rather avoid than break down and see what is behind that wall which is me. I’m behind that wall, the real me who has nothing but love to give but in saying that, the wall has stopped the wrong people from entering my life and tearing me down even more than my parents already have.

If you ever question why you are going through a situation in life, why that person won’t text you back or why you feel let down all the time just remember it’s for a reason. The reason will be clear to you eventually but don’t ever feel like these things just happen because your a bad person, because your not! They are life lessons that will only teach us in the end. Everybody is on their own journey in life and horrible things are happening to all of us but in the end you will see the reason because there always is one. 


14 Replies to “Everything Happens For A Reason”

  1. When I was in college I loved taking psychology classes and would analyze myself. I think that’s what people with anxiety do… try to constantly understand why we are the way we are. Those of us with anxiety and depression face a battle everyday that many people will never truly understand… but we are stronger because of what we have gone through. I too believe everything happens for a reason.

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    1. Thank you for your comment! I’m always wondering why it is that we think this way and to be honest it’s good that we are different too! We are strong enough to deal with it and that’s the main thing 😊

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  2. Yes, indeed everything happens for a reason. Regretting and living in the past just anchors you in the present and stops you from moving into the future.

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  3. I’m glad to know that I’m not alone. I could relate to your post absolutely, from the beginning till the very end. Moreover, I too use the words “Everything happens for a reason” as a coping mechanism. Thanks for sharing!

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  4. You are the first person to follow me, and this was the first real life contact that has touched my spirit in a positive motivating way. All I do is write, analyze, question my actions, others actions , and in the process I’m suffering physically. I will try this phrase and see what happens. I look forward to reading more. Thank you for following me and sharing your thoughts.

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    1. Hi! Thank you so much for commenting! When people show an interest in my blog I always like to return the favour and can’t wait to read more from you! I’m constantly wondering why people do the things they do and why I do what I do! Do try it because it helps me so much and I hope it can help you too 😊😊

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